expectations (ang matamaan, guilty.. this goes to all..)

its innate for all of us to have expectations. even impressions in a way are affected by your expectatiaons. they serve asyour basis for judging people. but expectations are not always good.

first, they aren't long term. it doesnt mean na what you expect of someone is whta he really is. this is called labelling. accordingto psych, labelling pressures an individual to act the way the society wants him to act. thus, di niya naipalalabas ang sarili niya. his true character. just for the sake of fitting in the sciety. he acts according to the label.
and i dont' think. that labelling/ expectations are good in a relationship. pero you cant prevent to expect. of course...i also expect. but to expect doesn't control the whole relationship. itdoesnt' mean that if you expected me to be sweet, then you'll order me to be sweet. HINDI TAma ang gayon.

second, expectaions suck... especially if you live of it. it doesn't show the reality. if you're living your life full of expectaions, then probably your livng in a lie.. wish ko lang magising ka sa katotohanan. not all that your expecting are meant ofr you. wish mo lang...

thirdly, expectations are..... well they are...

wala akong masabi. basta i just hated expectations. especially if they put some pressure on you. grabe. nakakabwisit lang. coz, i'm not the type that would change...
this is me.. this isthesimplest you can get as well as the most shittest you can get..

now if everyone does feel shitty about me.. shoo.. ican adjust but not to the extent of changing myself to fit in the category that a "somebody" wants...

you cant change the stripes of a tiger.